THE GIFT OF THE GAB
Are you a wonderful salesman? Do people want to listen to you? Do you really get your message across and does it lead to effective action? More often than not, you may feel, that whoever listens to you, just wants it to get it over with quickly. In order to get somebody's attention, you have to make an impression. Be clear on what you're trying to say. Don't leave people confused. As long as you believe passionately in the information you're trying to pass on, people won't get distracted easily.
But most people don't trust you, when you appear to intimidate them. That's why you should avoid aggressive behaviour. Your gift of the gab may then become more of a hindrance than a help. It's much better if you show genuine interest in what people feel. Some people are screaming for solutions to their problems. Just imagine, what someone else might be thinking. If you're unable, for whatever reason, to be supportive, remove yourself from the situation.
Sometimes things don't quite work out as expected. Honest communication is crucial. Otherwise you'll be unable to achieve anything, despite your gift of the gab. No news is not good news. No news often creates a nest of intrigue. Silence isn't always golden. Therefore, a far better approach would be to give the impression of wanting to help. That could make a huge difference, when peace seems far-fetched.
RICK SCHMULL